There’s only one rule about marriage you should never break, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith, and that is only doing it if you want to
I got with my girlfriend when I was 17, and she moved in with me just a few months after we met. We have been with each other for four years and she has been asking for me to pop the question. I have never cheated, nor do I see myself with anyone else. But for some reason, I am against getting married.
She is a few years older than me. She wants to get married before she hits 25. I am 21 and she wants me to be a married man! It’s not like I don’t see a future with her, because I do. I just fear marriage at my age. Am I right to feel this way?